In this post I am going to be revealing to you three principle you must follow on how to start a relationship that will last the test of time. Every guy and lady out there is looking for Mr. or Miss right or perfect. They are ways to start a relationship and grow it. So in this post I am going to discuss the various ways or steps on how to start a relationship that will last.
Stop downgrading yourself, or believing the person you have emotional feelings for is just not interested in you. In fact, skip all the negative thinking and work towards your positive mindset.
People who are genuinely happy with their romantic choices spend more energy working on their own self-development than on appearing a certain way to attract love. Instead of focusing on playing the game to entice a partner or trying to flirter with your partner, why not put your focus on these three principles I am about to highlight to you and, over time, the right match for you will present itself. You have to practice this principles I am about to outline to you very well and you will see positive changes in your relationship and love life.
The three principles you must apply in your relationship so as to enable it to grow and last longer are as follows:
1. Understand yourself, sexually and emotionally
If you have not worked hard very well to understand yourself emotionally and sexually, you will enter romantic relationships from an emotionally dependent place. You may have the unrealistic hope that someone else will know how to understand you and make you happy even when you, yourself, may not know. Direct communication to your partners about your emotions, feelings and your sexual side is very important.
Try and Make a conscious effort to become aware of your ongoing emotional reactions to the people and events in your life. Observe and label your emotional reactions. Reflect on your feelings and talk with people about how you feel or what you are noticing about yourself, without expecting them to put you back again.
2. Believe what people show and say about themselves.
It is very important to study people behavior very well. If someone treats you in a disrespectful manner or chronically lets you down, take it as that person’s way of life. If you try to talk with someone and he or she dismisses you, don’t take this seriously. If a man says he is not looking for “anything serious” or he needs a lot of “space,” let him go. Give him enough space that he need, soon he will be the one looking for you, but if you continue pestering yourself on him, you will lose your self-value.
This person is not in the same place you are and may not want the same things you want. Believe what people communicate about themselves. If they are acting immaturely or disrespectfully, or saying things that hurt you, move on. It is not your job to show someone a better way; it is your job to work on growing as a person. You need to prove to your partner that you are mature and that you respect your self-worth.
3. Avoid Sex in your Relationship
Many girls nowadays have been brain washed that sex in the most important thing in a relationship, but based on my own observation, personal experience and thorough research, I have discover the frequent sex in a relationship have caused so many break-up in a relationship, because if you can’t satisfy your partner sexual urge then you are prone to lose him or her.
You better prevent it, as they say, prevention is better that cure. I describe sexual urge as a cycle of working to achieve emotional and sexual intimacy through hastened sex. If you are hoping that a sexual relationship will eventually lead to a more emotionally intimate or committed relationship, cease and desist from it, because research has shown that relationships that start with sex before emotional intimacy doesn’t last.
You will spend your time hoping and working to get someone to change, you could be putting your energy into growing as a person and finding someone who likes the person you have become, but when you commit yourself to too much to your partner, then he or she will only see you as a sex machine or a sex partner, whom he or she uses to certify his or her sexual urge.
If you follow this three principles I have highlighted on how to start a relationship, then you can build a strong relationship with your partner which can never break up.
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