My Husband Abandoned Me and My Daughters Because We Have Blue Eyes – Risikat Narrate Her Ordeal

A woman whose husband abandoned her and their children because they have blue eyes has narrated her ordeal. A student of the University of Osun, who travelled to Ilorin for the Sallah festival, brought the family’s plight to the limelight after she shared their photos on Facebook. Alabi Afusat explained that she met a family who had natural blue-eyes and their eye colour made their father to abandon them.

The family’s story went viral and the mum of the blue-eyed girls, Risikat Azeez-Ayegbami who also has natural blue eye shared her story. Risikat, a mum of two from Kwara State, told Punch Newspaper that she was born with naturally blue eyes. She explained that since it was unusual, her parents took her to the General Hospital where a series of tests were done and it was revealed that her eyes are perfect.

She explained that as she grew older, concerned people kept commenting on her eyes and advising her parents to take her for a medical checkup. While she was still in primary school, she narrated that her teachers invited her parents and asked them to take her to the hospital to check her eyes. She explained that when her parents took her to the hospital again, the doctors did tests again and told her that there is nothing wrong with her eyes and they are just naturally blue like that of a Caucasian.

She added that the doctors gave her lots of gifts and told her that they love her eyes.

According to her words;

“I can see clearly and there’s nothing wrong with my eyes,” she said. A relative also explained how Risikat used to be invited to the General Hospital when she was a child just because they were fascinated by her eyes. The relative added that the General Hospital used to compensate Risikat for honoring their visit. Risikat grew older and got married. She gave birth to three girls and all of them inherited her blue eye colour.

However, she explained that her husband, Abdulwasiu Omo Dada, had a problem with it and abandoned them as a result of that. She said he loved her with her eyes at first but after she had their first child and she was born with the same eyes, their relationship changed and it became hard to have a conversation with her husband. It got worse when she had her younger daughter.

According to her words;

“When I had the first baby, it became difficult to have a conversation with him. Till I left with the children, we didn’t have a conversation. Whenever I attempt to have a conversation with him, he would get angry and walk out on me.”

She said that when she got pregnant with her second daughter, things were so hard for them that they couldn’t afford food or medical care. She began going to her parents’ home to eat and when it was time to have her child, her parents paid her hospital bills.

The second baby came out with blue eyes too and at this point, her husband’s behavior became worse. To make matters worse, his parents also expressed their displeasure with the eyes of his children.

According to her words;

“Even his parents were asking him if he was going to keep having children with blue eyes.”

Risikat narrated that her husband began leaving home for days. Sometimes, he will be away for a whole week and wouldn’t leave money for his family. She said she began eating at her parents’ home again. After the birth of her third child christening, she said her parents asked her to leave her husband. She said that since she left, her husband has not shown up to ask after her or their kids. It is indeed a pathetic story for the single mother of three.


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